I just wanted to share with you all a wonderful day I had in the holidays (which seems terribly long ago now). It started out as just an average Autumn day. I was in the city garnering interest for Cranes for Hope from some local Japanese restaurants.
But life always ends up surprising you. You know what they say though... the best prize is a sur-prise! (I know you guys look forward to my cheesy, corny lines so here you go! Plenty more where that came from.)
Some smile-lights included...
I cooked this! Just kidding, Google cooked this. |
We ended up talking for half an hour about his journey to Australia as a kid and how he ended up working in a Japanese restaurant. I walked out with a hand-written recipe for "Pad Thai" clutched protectively in my hand and a huge smile on my face. Amen for Pad Thai, sister!
=) Two Cancer Council volunteers I met outside Wynyard Station. Dave was from England (England, I say! Hold yourselves back, ladies) and Adam had only graduated from high school last year.
Somehow, I ended up teaching them how to fold cranes. This turned into a 15-minute affair full of jokes and distractions - especially when a leggy blonde walked by and Dave completely zoned out. I then broke into song about how I'd make a man out of him and then we all started dancing in sync and people on the street gasped at our singing and dancing prowess! No, not really but wouldn't it be great if that actually happened? One day my life shall be a musical!
In the end, I was actually kind of sad to leave them and we parted with a warm and fuzzy hug. I then rode off into the sunset on my gallant horse whilst singing "The hills are alive with the sound of music!" And they certainly were!
Say hello to my new backyard. |
Now, I want to share with you guys a deep dark secret of mine...
I actually get really really nervous and scared when I'm meeting new people.
It's true - I am indeed a big pansy. I have the sweaty palms to prove it (and my ears also do this weird thing where they go really hot and red - I call this my "tomato" look, it's very popular with the guys).
I worry whether I'll say something completely dumb or blurt out something random by accident. Or whether they'll think I'm creepy for talking to them or they just won't want to talk to me. Or whether they'll just laugh at me for my tomato-red ears.
Every time I've talked to someone new though, they've never cared that my ears go really red or that I start babbling gibberish when I'm nervous. Every person I've ever met has actually been really interesting and has always taught me something. Like behind every person - young or old, from England or Thailand, red ears or no red ears - they've always had a story to share.
Now, by no means am I saying go and talk to random strangers. Stranger danger, kids, stranger danger! But don't not talk to someone or not do something simply because you're scared of rejection or you're scared of failure.
Next time you're scared, think of this: "20 years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than the things you did do." And then do it. With all the strength of a raging fire.
You'll live. I promise.
And always remember, Happiness Equals Bracket =)
haha I was actually thinking while I was reading it 'wow damn, how does she have such amazing people skills/guts to talk to random strangers?' which made the moral even more inspiring HAHA :D
ReplyDeleteyou're so lovely and amazing. <3
I also wanted to say I happened to check your blog like 10 minutes after you updated! Coincidence? I think not (;
Yey I get brownie points.
ReplyDelete"One day my life shall be a musical!" Huzzah!
And *gasp*! Really? I would've thought that was impossible XD You always seem so confident and friendly around people :D
And I agree with Helen's comment :D
WHOOPS Accidentally commented with my brother's google account.
ReplyDeleteHEH
And sorry, you're probably feeling disappointed right now that it's not actually 3 comments from 3 different people :P
gnaw that's so awesome that you can so easily strike up a convo - and it's always great to hear about all the friendly and nice strangers out there (:
ReplyDeleteand wow if you seriously just broke out into song in the middle of central ... gosh I'd love to do that one day :D :D
x suzi
HAHA what are you talking about suzi? We kinda have done that.... just at parra ;)
ReplyDeleteBUT OF COURSE that can be on the books too :D Great day Lindy! It sounded like heaps of fun :D
Isn't the song "Talking to the Moon" - Bruno Mars? :)
ReplyDeleteAnd I wanna play monopoly on that! O_O